{"id":2571,"date":"2025-07-10T19:21:41","date_gmt":"2025-07-10T23:21:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/?p=2571"},"modified":"2025-07-10T19:21:41","modified_gmt":"2025-07-10T23:21:41","slug":"campfire-tales-what-you-see-and-what-you-dont","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-what-you-see-and-what-you-dont","title":{"rendered":"Campfire Tales | What You See and What You Don&#8217;t (7\/11\/25)"},"content":{"rendered":"<pre>By Aaron Selkow, Owner\/Director<\/pre>\n<p>Here at Chestnut Lake, we\u2019re deep into the second week of First Session. The sun is shining most of the time, the lake is full of splashes and laughter, and the kids are busy being exactly what they should be: campers. It\u2019s that sweet spot in the summer where routines are taking hold, friendships are locking in a bit more, and moments of joy happen before anyone even realizes how fun they are.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"747\" data-end=\"1599\">Each morning around 5:00 AM, before camp even stirs awake, I get an automatic news briefing with any stories about summer camps across the country. Most days, it\u2019s minor stuff \u2014 a fun event, a trend piece, or maybe a local camp in the news. But in the last week, like many of you, I was stopped in my tracks by the devastating stories out of Texas. The flash flooding, the loss of life, the heartbreak that swept through Camp Mystic and others \u2014 there are no words for the depth of sadness felt across the camping world. One of the lives lost was a dear colleague, Ann Ragsdale (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.acacamps.org\/news\/how-you-can-help-texas-hill-country-camps-families\">click here<\/a> if you would like to support Texas Hill Country camps and families). She was trying to evacuate staff when the unimaginable happened. These are the people who give their summers, their hearts, and their lives to create safe, joyful, transformational places for children. To see that story end in tragedy is something we\u2019ll be holding for a long time. And it certainly reminds us here that \u2014 even with no risk of flooding like was seen near the Guadalupe River \u2014 we have to stay vigilant in our efforts to protect and guide your children.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1601\" data-end=\"2103\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-what-you-see-and-what-you-dont\/img_0806\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2576\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-2576 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-512x341.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"305\" height=\"203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-512x341.jpeg 512w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-170x113.jpeg 170w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806-700x467.jpeg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0806.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 305px) 100vw, 305px\" \/><\/a>And yet, here at Chestnut, the camp day continues. Kids are running, climbing, practicing for Lip Sync, flying across the lake on skis, and building friendships that will last well beyond the end of the session. There\u2019s joy in every corner. And for many of you at home, that joy is mostly coming through in the form of a photo or video. You refresh the Campanion app, you watch another social media post play on your phone, you squint at a thumbnail, maybe zoom in on a blurry face in the back of a group shot, and wonder: Is that my kid? Are they smiling? Is that the same T-shirt again? Are they&#8230;okay?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2105\" data-end=\"2771\">This is a good moment to revisit a blog I wrote a couple of years ago after reading a Wall Street Journal article called <em data-start=\"2223\" data-end=\"2285\">\u201cObsessed Parents Overanalyze Photos of Their Kids at Camp\u201d<\/em> (the title tells you pretty much everything). The article was funny and cringeworthy and, if I\u2019m being honest, uncomfortably relatable. It described parents who wake up at 3:00 AM to scroll through photos, desperately hoping to decode how their child is doing based on a single captured moment. I\u2019ve done it. When our own daughter was at camp (not the camp I was running) I was the classic \u201czoom and panic\u201d or &#8220;refresh, refresh, refresh&#8221; parent. She didn\u2019t look thrilled in one photo, and I spiraled for the rest of the day.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2773\" data-end=\"3350\">At Chestnut Lake, our Communications Team works around the clock\u2014often literally\u2014to bring camp to life for families at home. As of right now, we\u2019ve uploaded over 10,000 photos (on pace for more than 50,000\u2014twice as many as last year). That\u2019s not a typo. Ten thousand photos in 12 days. And that doesn\u2019t include video editing, social media, and everything else they do. It\u2019s an incredible amount of work for a team that also lives in bunks, leads activities, and still somehow manages to be in the right place at the right time at times to capture your camper\u2019s moments.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3352\" data-end=\"3443\">But here\u2019s the truth: no matter how many photos we post, they\u2019ll never tell the full story. Here are things to know about the photos:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li data-start=\"3445\" data-end=\"3743\">They don\u2019t show the inside joke that the kids will be laughing about all night that\u2019s just off-camera.<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3445\" data-end=\"3743\">They don\u2019t capture the relief on a child\u2019s face when a counselor helps them navigate a tough moment.<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3445\" data-end=\"3743\">They don&#8217;t include the camper who is shy or too busy doing something to be captured on film by the one camera nearby.<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3445\" data-end=\"3743\">They don\u2019t reflect how it felt to get to the top of the climbing wall after three tries\u2014or how loud someone&#8217;s friends cheered when they did.<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3445\" data-end=\"3743\">And they don&#8217;t even get taken when the photographer realizes that the moment they&#8217;re seeing through the viewfinder is just too special, too personal, or too perfect to risk ruining with the imposition of a staff member&#8217;s digital camera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"3745\" data-end=\"4192\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-what-you-see-and-what-you-dont\/img_0807\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2577\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-2577\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-512x341.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"321\" height=\"214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-512x341.jpeg 512w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-170x113.jpeg 170w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807-700x467.jpeg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0807.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 321px) 100vw, 321px\" \/><\/a>And yes, sometimes your camper might look tired in a photo. Because they are. Camp is full of long, amazing days. Sometimes they\u2019re not smiling because they didn\u2019t see the camera about to shoot a photo. Or because they\u2019re concentrating. Or maybe they\u2019re just thinking about whether their S\u2019more from last night counts as dinner. Sometimes a kid\u2019s not in a photo because they were in the bathroom. Or refilling their water bottle. Or just not in the mood to be on camera. That\u2019s allowed, too.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4194\" data-end=\"4602\">In light of what\u2019s happened in Texas, I think we all feel the stakes a little differently. The urge to <em data-start=\"4297\" data-end=\"4302\">see<\/em> our kids, to <em data-start=\"4316\" data-end=\"4322\">know<\/em> they\u2019re okay, to have evidence that they are safe and cared for \u2014it\u2019s powerful. And real. But I hope you\u2019ll let the photos be a glimpse, not a diagnosis. I hope you\u2019ll remember that the truest parts of camp\u2014the ones that will last\u2014are happening whether the camera is there or not.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4604\" data-end=\"4942\">What we promise at Chestnut Lake is this: your children are known, cared for, celebrated, and surrounded by adults who take their responsibility seriously. They\u2019re having the time of their lives \u2014 and we\u2019ll do our best to show you pieces of that. But we also know that camp isn\u2019t meant to be viewed through a screen. It\u2019s meant to be lived.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4944\" data-end=\"5140\">So please keep looking at the photos. Enjoy them. Laugh at the messy hair and the muddy clothes. Zoom in if you must. Just know that the real story is unfolding in ways no photo can fully capture. And when your child comes home \u2014 exhausted, hoarse, missing a bunch of socks, full of stories\u2014you\u2019ll get the full picture then.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Aaron Selkow, Owner\/Director Here at Chestnut Lake, we\u2019re deep into the second week of First Session. The sun is shining most of the time, the lake is full of splashes and laughter, and the kids are busy being exactly what they should be: campers. 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