{"id":2672,"date":"2025-08-08T09:15:05","date_gmt":"2025-08-08T13:15:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/?p=2672"},"modified":"2025-08-08T11:54:40","modified_gmt":"2025-08-08T15:54:40","slug":"campfire-tales-real-leadership","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-real-leadership","title":{"rendered":"Campfire Tales | Real Leadership (8\/8\/25)"},"content":{"rendered":"<pre>By Aaron Selkow, Owner\/Director<\/pre>\n<p>We\u2019re six weeks into camp, and at this point in the summer, I\u2019ve seen enough to be reminded that leadership here doesn\u2019t always look like a keynote speech or a flawless plan. Sometimes it looks like a Mato camper sprinting toward the end zone, clutching the football like a hot potato as he realizes he\u2019s about to score for the first time. Or a Wakanda camper showing plate discipline, drawing a walk to score a run in a big inter-camp game. Or even a Varsity camper putting their arm around a friend and quietly helping them through a tough moment in the middle of an up-and-down day.<\/p>\n<p>We are two-thirds of the way through this session \u2014 and six-sevenths of the way through the summer \u2014 and what\u2019s been built here is more than schedules, programs, or Tribal points. We\u2019ve built leaders. Some of them are 9 years old, some are 19, and some are staff members who didn\u2019t even realize they had it in them until now.<\/p>\n<p>When I wrote an article for Camping Magazine a few years ago, I admitted that my camp-director \u201cskills\u201d were, well, eclectic:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I can spin a basketball on my finger.<\/li>\n<li>I can referee seven different sports, design a T-shirt, format a newsletter, drive a 26-foot box truck, and properly stern a canoe.<\/li>\n<li>I can mount a framed photo without a ruler, and I\u2019ve repaired both a window screen and a meaningful relationship more than a few times.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/img_1043\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2676\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-341x512.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"218\" height=\"327\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-341x512.jpeg 341w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-683x1024.jpeg 683w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-113x170.jpeg 113w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-768x1152.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-1024x1536.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043-700x1050.jpeg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1043.jpeg 1365w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 218px) 100vw, 218px\" \/><\/a>Some of these, I\u2019ll admit, I\u2019ve probably gotten <em>too <\/em>good at, while struggling to improve at things that might matter a bit more to camp\u2019s success (and my own). Others \u2014 like belaying on the high ropes course, driving the golf cart without an actual key, or calming a parent who isn\u2019t getting the answer they want \u2014 I\u2019ve learned out of necessity.<\/p>\n<p>This is the thing about leadership at camp: it\u2019s not just about what you set out to learn. It\u2019s about what the job throws at you \u2014 and how you handle it. Carol Dweck calls it a \u201cgrowth mindset,\u201d the belief that abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work. Camp is essentially a graduate course in that regard. You wake up, step outside, and something \u2014 often unexpected \u2014 will come your way that you\u2019ll need to figure out.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve seen that same pattern in our campers and staff this summer:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The counselor who ran a fantastic Arts &amp; Crafts activity with pure enthusiasm \u2014 even though the supply order they\u2019d been counting on never arrived.<\/li>\n<li>The older camper who volunteered to be goalie in soccer for the first time and then stopped two penalty shots in one game.<\/li>\n<li>The first-time campers who stood on stage at our Community Campfire and spoke beautifully about a new friend being honored with a Community Service Award \u2014 even though they\u2019d met less than a week before.<\/li>\n<li>The bunk that secretly made friendship bracelets for their counselor, who was missing home, just to make sure she knew how much she mattered here.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/img_1044\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-2677 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-512x410.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"291\" height=\"233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-512x410.jpeg 512w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-1024x819.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-170x136.jpeg 170w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-768x614.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-1536x1229.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044-700x560.jpeg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/IMG_1044.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 291px) 100vw, 291px\" \/><\/a>These moments don\u2019t happen because someone read a manual on leadership. They happen because we\u2019ve built a community where people jump in, try, fail, adjust, try again \u2014 and where those actions are noticed and celebrated.<\/p>\n<p>Now comes the final stretch. This is when leadership matters most \u2014 when routines are second nature, when it would be easy to coast. This is the time to double down: to lead loudly by cheering your team through the last Tribal event (which could break at any moment), and to lead quietly by spotting the camper sitting alone and inviting them into the game.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been doing this for a long time, and I can say without question that I\u2019m already the luckiest I can be. Luck got me here, but leadership \u2014 mine, and yours \u2014 is what keeps making this place extraordinary.<\/p>\n<p>So let\u2019s finish strong. Let\u2019s add a few more skills to our tool belts, a few more stories to our highlight reel, and a few more moments where someone surprises themselves with what they\u2019re capable of. That\u2019s how leaders are made here \u2014 one unexpected challenge, one person doing something special to make a difference, and one great camp day at a time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Aaron Selkow, Owner\/Director We\u2019re six weeks into camp, and at this point in the summer, I\u2019ve seen enough to be reminded that leadership here doesn\u2019t always look like a keynote speech or a flawless plan. 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