{"id":2683,"date":"2025-08-16T11:37:39","date_gmt":"2025-08-16T15:37:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/?p=2683"},"modified":"2025-08-16T11:37:39","modified_gmt":"2025-08-16T15:37:39","slug":"campfire-tales-one-for-the-books","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-one-for-the-books","title":{"rendered":"Campfire Tales | One for the Books (8\/16\/25)"},"content":{"rendered":"<pre>By Aaron Selkow, Owner\/Director<\/pre>\n<p>There\u2019s a certain hum that fills camp in the final week \u2014 a sound that\u2019s equal parts joy, exhaustion, and an unspoken understanding that these days are numbered. It\u2019s the laughter that carries across the fields at dusk, the way voices in the dining hall hit a slightly higher pitch, and the quiet conversations between friends who know they\u2019re about to be apart. It\u2019s the sound of a summer\u2019s worth of living, pressed into its final pages.<\/p>\n<p>Over the past seven weeks, 654 campers have called Chestnut Lake home, and 246 staff members have poured themselves into making sure those campers had a summer they\u2019ll carry forever. That\u2019s thousands of moments spent connecting, millions of footsteps across camp, and more than a few well-timed reminders to \u201cplease put your sneakers on before going to tennis \u2014 Crocs are not good enough.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-one-for-the-books\/0f15fc08-6825-48a2-a6a7-00178439d111\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2690\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2690\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-341x512.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"236\" height=\"354\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-341x512.jpg 341w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-113x170.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111-700x1050.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/0F15FC08-6825-48A2-A6A7-00178439D111.jpg 1365w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/a>We\u2019ve come a long way since the start of Second Session. Back then, the new campers were figuring out the map of this place \u2014 not just where things were, but where they belonged in it. In those early days, I wrote about how campers grow; constantly grow \u2014 but watching it happen is still like magic every time. The kid who could barely meet my eyes when they stepped off the bus is now belting out the Alma Mater at the top of their lungs (especially the \u201cI\u2019m Chestnut \u2018til I die\u2026\u201d part at the end). The first-time counselor who thought \u201cleading a bunk\u201d meant giving orders learned quickly that it\u2019s about listening, laughing, and sometimes sitting quietly with a camper who just needs to be heard.<\/p>\n<p>We had plenty of the headline events. Tribal returned with all its energy \u2014 a few days when camp split into Unami and Minsi, competed like their lives depended on it, and then hugged like nothing had ever been at stake. We had our helicopter landing, our massive fireworks, our banquets, our talent shows (some of which redefined the word \u201ctalent\u201d in ways I\u2019m still trying to process). These are the moments that make the photo albums and the highlight videos.<\/p>\n<p>However, as I wrote in an earlier blog post, the important information is often found in the spaces between. In the quiet moment before a bunk takes the stage. The counselor who notices the homesick camper before anyone else. The smile that spreads across a camper\u2019s face when they finally hit the target, make it to the top of the climbing wall, or just realize that they belong here.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a saying in Michael Thompson\u2019s <em>Homesick and Happy<\/em>: \u201cCamp is not built on the big events, but on the thousands of small human exchanges that make children feel known, valued, and part of something larger than themselves.\u201d I think about that when I remember:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The camper who was too nervous to get in the lake on day one but, by week two, was racing to the Wibit with friends.<\/li>\n<li>The inside jokes born in bunks that make absolutely no sense to anyone outside them (and shouldn\u2019t).<\/li>\n<li>The counselor who stayed up late helping a camper write a letter home that expressed feelings they hadn\u2019t yet been able to share (and the parent who called me, thrilled to have received it).<\/li>\n<li>The look of relief and pride on a camper\u2019s face when they nailed a skill they\u2019d been working on all summer, finishing a beautiful ceramics project to bring home.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-one-for-the-books\/b7be098d-c012-4548-abc9-6296fbe2edbb\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2691\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-2691 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-512x341.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"342\" height=\"228\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-512x341.jpg 512w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB-700x467.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/B7BE098D-C012-4548-ABC9-6296FBE2EDBB.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 342px) 100vw, 342px\" \/><\/a>Writers have been trying to put the magic of camp into words for decades. In <em>The Summer Camp Handbook<\/em>, Jon Malinowski and my good friend Chris Thurber write: \u201cCamp is a place where you can be your truest self \u2014 because everyone else is, too.\u201d That\u2019s been true here every day this summer. My colleague Steve Baskin once quoted a camper who told him, \u201cIn three weeks here, I got back so much of the confidence I\u2019d lost.\u201d I\u2019ve seen that in our campers this summer \u2014 the return of confidence, the discovery of independence, the joy of finding a place where they are free to be fully themselves. And Lenore Skenazy, in an article for <em>Let Grow<\/em>, said it plainly: \u201cCamp works because it gives kids a community, a purpose, and the space to try.\u201d This summer, our kids tried everything \u2014 from the high ropes to waterskiing to making up an original dance or song in front of hundreds of people. And whether they succeeded or not, they were braver for trying.<\/p>\n<p>In the years to come, we\u2019ll remember the big events. But what will stay with us \u2014 the thing that makes this summer unforgettable \u2014 will be the people. The 800 individuals who trusted us with their summer, and the friendships that will outlast the tan lines sure to fade as everyone leaves through the Main Gate soon.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/campfire-tales-one-for-the-books\/20f49536-1ef7-417d-b795-1a81cc8ffd31\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2692\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2692\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-341x512.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"237\" height=\"356\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-341x512.jpg 341w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-113x170.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31-700x1050.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.chestnutlakecamp.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/20F49536-1EF7-417D-B795-1A81CC8FFD31.jpg 1365w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 237px) 100vw, 237px\" \/><\/a>As we pack the duffels and watch the buses pull away, I\u2019m reminded of what Anne Lamott once wrote: \u201cLighthouses don\u2019t go running all over an island looking for boats to save; they just stand there shining.\u201d Ann and I feel it\u2019s our mission \u2014 joined by an exceptional team of professionals and seasonal leaders \u2014 to be that lighthouse, standing firmly on a foundation of commitment to excellence and integrity, ensuring that every child and adult who arrives and departs knows how to find their way with our never-ending light. This summer, Chestnut Lake shone.<\/p>\n<p>Soon, everyone will be home. The days will be quieter. Laundry will get done (eventually). And then, after the grass at camp has regained its green luster following a summer full of fun, someone will text a bunkmate a random emoji, and the whole summer will come rushing back. Because Chestnut Lake isn\u2019t just a place. It\u2019s a feeling. It\u2019s a community. Likewise, it\u2019s proof that under the open sky, surrounded by friends, we grow. And those moments of growth will be etched into our minds and souls forever.<\/p>\n<p>So thank you \u2014 campers, staff, parents \u2014 for making this summer one for the books. Now, go home, tell your stories, and start counting down the days to next summer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Aaron Selkow, Owner\/Director There\u2019s a certain hum that fills camp in the final week \u2014 a sound that\u2019s equal parts joy, exhaustion, and an unspoken understanding that these days are numbered. 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